Who are you?

It's a common theme for people to wonder "who they really are?" & "How do they find  themselves?" I think the real question is "Do we ever find our complete self or do we just figure it out bit by bit and go with the flow?" I honestly can't say I have found the complete me but here are a few ways you could try to figure out who you are which are helping me:

• Figure out what you want to do, your goals, I mean. You could write them down and put them up on your wall and chase those dreams and never give up on them.
• Move on from the past, it's now a memory and hopefully a lesson which will guide you positively in future.
• Learn to ignore people's opinions, like I always tell myself it's your life do what you want, live the life you dream of, your happiness matters more than anything.
• Learn to rely on yourself rather than on others to avoid being let down.
• Know your self-worth.
• Give yourself as many chances as you need, no one is above mistakes.
• Know the people around you and figure out who's worth your time.
• Organise your life.
• Find your passion and make it a reality. Whatever your passion is, no matter what people think of it doesn't matter.
• Love yourself enough, if you do you wouldn't need the acknowledgment of another person.
• Be as realistic and optimistic as you can be.
• Remember that not everything is going the run smoothly, you might have bumps along the way and thats normal.
• Be Patient
• Do you!!

"When you look in the mirror and see who you want to be or like who you have become, then you have found yourself; all that's left now is the better you!!"